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  1. Erica Mines
    Erica Mines at |

    I believe people should be open & honest about thier feelings. In return, thier partner/mate should be open and receptive of what the other partner/mate says. It doesnt matter how small or miniscule it may seem to one, you never know what life experiences may have them feel that way. No one wants to be reminded of something that didn’t feel good. I usually have the problem of deflection along with the above scenario. My partner will over talk me & then discuss something that he has a problem with while never addressing my concern. Afterwards he usually leaves & doesn’t call and sometimes he’ll apologize but not with the intent to not let it happen again. It always happens again and I end calling and mending the situation by letting him vent. Because of the lack of communication my feelings are constantly hurt and never dealt with. I feel like I’m disposable & my feelings don’t count. We’ve been together almost four years & have lived seperately for the last year of it. It’s quite hard to fix this communication issue. When do you just walk away?

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    1. Dana
      Dana at |

      He sounds Narscistic, and selfish. I think you already know what you want to do.

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